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as a 30 year old, african-american lady, i've been dating asian men for the last ten years of my life. for me it was never a decision to try a new race so to speak, rather a decision to experience different cultural traditions. i respect the fact that in asian cultures traditional roles are observed between men and woman, and family comes first. this is something that i missed out on in my family, as it was female dominated and taught all the girls to be incredibly independent of men. almost to a negative end. by dating asian men, i was exploring their culture and learning wha telse could be found in the world. i've dated all types of asian men: korean, japanese, indian, philliphino, thai, chinese, hawaiian, etc. i should say that i am 5 feet, 9.5 inches tall and very shapely. it never bothered me that some men where shorter than me, say 5'7 or taller than me, say 6'2. as a very independent and capable woman, i never experienced a problem with the very dominant male personalities that i encountered. rather, i enjoy dating men that have a backbone!! laughing. most american men tend to be really weak emotionally and i find it to be a draining experience to date them. i would rather date a guy that is asian, that understands and appreciates his opportunites and does not take them for granted. i am aware of the issues that everyone speaks of regarding asian men and sex. really, i think it is all rubbish. men are men. some are more physically endowed than others and sexually more talented than others, but that has nothing to do with race. and everything to do with genetics and a good sex teacher!! personally, i find asian men to be incredibly beautiful men. really pleasing to the eye. as a women that loves men with black hair and brown eyes, i can honestly say that i am never disappointed. i would say that my only problem is moving from long-term dating to marriage. that is when all the problems regarding different cultures pop up. lately, i have been hearing the "its alright to date you as a black woman, but i could never marry you", "i must follow traditions in that respect". it is disappointing to hear this to say the least. and to be honest, i have no reply to it. how can they feel comfortable introducing me to their family and friends as their girlfriend, telling me they love me, yet not be comfortable with marriage?? for me, it is a non-issue, i will marry the man that i love regardless of his race. but, as i keep dating i wait more and more to become invovled with a new asian guy. trying to determine if i am the flavor of the month or really someone he will care for. i guess my reply is this: do i find asian guys attractive? hell yeah!!, do i experience any problems sexually with them? only those that arise in normal relationships. am i ever disappointed sexually? yes, if he is unimagnitive in bed!! laughing. any problems with our families? mine is wonderfully accepting and will i play it by ear with his. laughing. it has been a good experience all the way around and i will continue to date asian guys. after all i only desire the most beautiful men that i can find.